would you read romantic books even after you are married?
[question posted by riyasam]
responses and comments:
Reading books is my hobby be it romance books or some other. My husband will not object as he knows i love reading books and he would want me continue my hobbies [koolkid2356]
i am in agreement with you. [riyasam]
Sorry i can't get time to read romantic books, if i get free time i read only swamy vivekananda life stories and subashchanda bose life stories and other national leaders life histories. i like all history books not romance [KrishnaVeera]
thanks for responding. [riyasam]
I haven't read a romance novel in years. I find them a bit sickly sweet and they tend to portray love and romance in an unrealistic way. I much prefer reading non fiction or when I do read a novel I like a good mystery... something to keep me on my toes:) [seewhy]
Not all romance books portray love in the same way. There are different types of romance books, and mulitude of genres within the genre. Romance is fiction, by definition is not suppose to be completely realistic. If you were to name any classical literature there would be something in, I could point to, as being non- realistic. Are mysteries realistic? [Corrine11]
I have but they all have been of the supernatual/pretanatural ilk. About vampires, werewolves, shapeshifters, time travel, etc. because there seems to a story line other than se* and usually all of the other romance novels I've tried to read always seem to be the same story over and over again. [beadedserpent]
I don't see why not. Even after marriage, many guys still watch porn, so I don't think it would be anything close to a problem for a woman to still read romance. My mom still reads romance, and she's been married for over 20 years. [Desertbird]
I love yor image It's so cuteeeee! [marciascott]
Oh my goodness yes! I read romance novels all the time. I don't feel it takes anything away from my relationship with my husband. He reads murder mysteries... that doesn't mean anything, it's just what he likes to read. I like to get lost in a book and for me, the better the romance novel, the happier I am. [Bev1986]
Yes.I like very much to read romantic books. That inspires me very much and give me only,,good,,ideas. I wish u luck! HAve a great day! [tocika]
well i am not a book reader so i dont prefer reading at all except by study books or else nothing [pratew3y]
Of course! It doesn't mean that you don't love your husband or you don't think he's romantic. If it's a hobby..then you should stick with it. And if your husband has a problem with it, then he can deal with it. Lol I realize I sound really cold here, but it's just a book. It's not like you're cheating on him...with a book. :) [dopey22girl]
I would read them even if I'm married. Though, I haven't read any of them in years. [starr4all]
I never read books, I'm always on my computer that's enough reading for me, I will watch a romance movie. [marciascott]
guess your thinking is also right. [riyasam]
If I wanted to. I don't see anything wrong with it. Does your husband disapprove? Mine wouldn't mind if I did or not. [lucy02]
if you love reading then it doesn't really matter what you even after you get married. who knows maybe you could get some ideas you can share with your husband. [konzen]
That is very true. She did pretty good with this Topic. [marciascott]
i dont thing their is any problem with that,infact it will improve our understanding of love, we get the ability to thing from other perspective [jobinbabu]
Y dear what happens after marraige do we become Un romatic. If this is the case then its difficult bcoz i am very much romantic & i dont want 2 lose it. Also i am not marraige [handsomeearning]
Reading romantic books I guess has nothing to do with you getting married. Reading is a hobby and what kinda book you read depends on your interests. Some raed fiction, some action, some suspense, some trageic. I do read. but not at novels as i think they are wastage of time and energy. [akchaykumar]
yes, i will still read romantic books even when i get married because the romance is just started after the marriage ends. :) [mishang]
i don't understand how does marriage stop you from reading romantic...or any books for that matter. in case you imply that after marriage a person has enough romance in life to read any....well.....that's a different case:) ;) [opinder]
i would rather watch a romantic movie rather than reading it. [joygermino]
pf course yes - i have been happily married for the ast 10 years - and i stil read romance novels. [gargsuchi]
If it's a romantic story I don't mind. But if it is a sex story I do and I give up reading immediately. You know there are some books that they say they have a romantic story as a atheme and then while reading you realise you have read sexual descriptions. [remaster74]
reding romantic books after marriage is not an affence [guharamdas]
Yes, why should it make a difference if you are single or married? [ukchriss]
I am married. And I read Romance books like crazy! Why not? It is simply an escape from reality... not to mention a good romance novel can put you in the mood for about anything, and your hubby should like that!!!! [fieryeyedwriter]
I used to but maybe thats because it wasn't a very happy marriage. [michelledarcy]
no i wont read them but i will watch a great romance on a dvd. i love a great romance and always look out for new releases lol.. hugsssssss [shelly43]
reading is my hobby.have a great day. [riyasam]